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Postado 27 October 2019 - 11:55 PM
Economic women must be strong before thinking about marriage
What do people think about this issue?
I am a married woman and have a daughter.
In the past, I thought that if I got married, I would stay home to take care of my children and do housework, but I didn't necessarily have to go to work.
But it was a wrong thought until now I realize.
If a woman does not go out to work but takes care of the housework and chores for her husband, she will suffer bitter words from many sides. If you meet a good husband and parents-in-law will be fine, but if the husband and the parents-in-law are difficult, you will be despised by those you consider to be family. not to mention the neighbors who will gossip
I am an example. My husband is kind, gentle but hot-tempered He does not want me to work because he thinks I should stay at home to take care of the children. Just focus on looking after the child, he goes to work is enough. If it was normal, it would be fine, but if we argued, he would say I was bad because I was just a mother at home taking care of my children, not working to make money. He thinks that taking care of children at home is too easy. Only people like him work hard
I think a lot, fight a lot. I try to be patient until now my child is nearly 3 years old, I send him to school and I ask to go to work. At first thinking about work I was quite confused because I had not been in society to work for a while, I thought I was afraid I could not do it. Then I decided to apply for a job because I had to try to know how much I could do. The first time I went to ask for a reception at a hotel near where I was staying. After the interview, I was accepted to work. But working time here is quite early. I would not be able to bring my daughter to school so I decided to quit my job to find a new job.
After a few days looking for a job, I found a job where I could take my daughter to school. It's the games design work here http://www.gamesbx.biz/1 the work is not too difficult and requires no experience. I can both do and play games for free.
After I found a job, my husband and I quarreled less. My husband no longer has reason to tell me. I feel the couple's feelings are much better. because when I go to work, my husband will reduce the burden of rice and money, and I will be more mentally comfortable because I can spend my own money and meet friends and colleagues.
Why do I now realize the value of economic autonomy? I should realize that sooner, so our happiness will come sooner.
Now if you have any thoughts like I used to, just stay home and take care of your children, give up that thought.
We need to own the economy to have a happy life!
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